It's a common thing I have found in fandoms in general. A female character is often portrayed as desperate and pining for the guy or a cold byotch. The cold byotch isn't something I've seen too much with Weir...yet. ;)

And I agree while introspective fic isn't my cup of tea it would be nice to see some from Sheppard's pov.

Although I'm surprised how easy it has been writing Weir for me. While I don't delve into her proffessional side like melyanna does, I'm finding it quite easy with the interpersonal things with her. And more emotional sides. Getting into Sheppard's head is rather challenging. :D